Parent - Child Relationship

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Parent-Child-Relationship

WHAT IS PARENT-CHILD-RELATIONSHIP?

If you ask me to name 5 tough jobs to do properly, parental responsibility would be one of them. I am not a parent, but I can surely relate to how vulnerable Parent-Child-Relationship's might be at times. Parent-Child-Relationship is a non-profit venture which is vague, unpredictable and is filled with disappointments.

 Investing in a person’s genesis to his survival, a parent is just not running a charity. Parents expect and they owe to their child. Embellishment of a Child is one hell of a duty. As a child I always looked upon my parents as monsters and actually, almost every kid once in his lifetime experiences this.

 

WHAT A CHILD INTERPRETS?

Parents usually love their children eternally. And having an outburst on them is valid, natural and okay. But, young minds are easy to mislead. Declaring one instance as abuse they entitle parents as traitors. They say, expectations kill. But if a person is flushing their whole and sole to nurture an identity, they must have the opportunity to explain what they want and feel, about their child. Apart from the classic expectations that, the child turns out to be obedient and takes care of us in our old-age; parents do have a lot to say.

 

RESPONSIBILITY OF PARENTS

What a positive parent always strive for, is to help grow their child decently and lead them to a secure lifestyle. Rearing the child through various aspects of humanity and world, helping them choose their favourite and appropriate path and secretly leaning over so that they use their shoulder in order to climb up the hurdle; parents sacrifice a lot.

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 Most parents know it well, why did they bring up a child to the world and hence they are responsible. The way a child needs to be humble in the process of learning, similarly the parent is now expected to be patient as the child is an amateur.

 

ROLE OF PARENTS DURING TEENAGE

 The Parent-Child-Relationship especially during the teenage plays a crucial role. A child wants to be understood at all times. Growing internally, externally, emotionally and mentally is just too much for a young soul to adapt. The right environment set by parents in an open-minded way will always have your child perform excellently. Involving the child in every small and big decision of the house is one thing to be noted. A positive parent must start sharing updates about their lives at regular intervals with their kids in order to win over their trust and increase the comfort. This might in turn result into the child sharing their experiences and secrets.

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CAREER AND LIFE

An ideal parent always observes his child behaviour and has a brief idea of what the child might be interested into. Always make sure as a parent to not burden the child with career decisions but at the same time slowly and indirectly talk it out. Make sure that his interests are his true passion and consequently enlighten his path. It is the prime responsibility of a child to always intimate his parents about any kind of physical changes and especially abnormal ones. But if the parent feels that the child is a bit shy and uncomfortable at sharing things, looking after a psychiatrist might be a good option. Your openness is the mould and the child is clay. Be comfortable and things will always go right. A teenager must have an all round company. A company that includes the brilliant ones, the bullies and the introverts. This indeed evolves ones thinking pattern. And making sure of this is parent’s indirect responsibility.

         

Give your child as much time as you can. The child must always have his parents available in order to seek solace. Rules of conduct are highly essential, but don’t have a lot of them. Make sure the few rules which you have set are not redundant. As a parent, talking to the child about life experiences, lessons, victories and failures can help the child get prepared for the upcoming hardships.

CONCLUSION

An Open-minded thought process, high rates of acceptance and forgiveness, importance in the family and a lot of attention is what every teenager seeks. If you treat him right in the teenage, he’s going to preach you forever. Times have changed. What is right and what is wrong has no universal definition. Finding faith and belief as a child in the eyes of parents and as a parent in the eyes of a child is the need of time. This teenage period is way more fragile than we think. It builds a lot of character and at the end of the day, CHARACTER ALWAYS WINS.

Originally arranged and 

written by

SARVESH KULKARNI

 (Wrote on behalf of all the kids struggling

 to have a good connection with their parents)